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Can we HELP?

HELP is the LGBT HERO, elop and London Friend Project for improving the mental wellbeing for all LGBTQ+ people.

Here you will find help, advice, and ways you can access counselling, peer support and group work, as well as finding other members of your community.

This joint project is funded by The National Lottery Community Fund supporting LGBT HERO, elop and London Friend's 'Blooming with Pride' programme to improve the mental health and wellbeing of LGBTQ+ people.

How to find a therapist

How to find a therapist

There's more than one way to access psychotherapy Read more

Published: 1st March, 2024

Updated: 8th September, 2024

Author:

London Friend services

London Friend services

London Friend is the UK’s oldest LGBTQ+ charity, providing mental health and wellbeing support to our city’s communities. Read more

Published: 5th October, 2022

Updated: 25th November, 2024

Author: Anonymised User

elop services

elop services

elop is the LGBT mental health charity that offers a range of social, emotional and support services to LGBTQ+ communities. Read more

Published: 5th October, 2022

Updated: 25th November, 2024

Author: Anonymised User

Can we HELP? campaign posters

Can we HELP? campaign posters

Campaign posters for the Can We HELP? mental wellbeing project.  HELP is the LGBT HERO, elop and London Friend Project for LGBTQ+ mental health and wellbeing. Read more

Published: 1st October, 2022

Updated: 10th October, 2022

Author: Anonymised User

Forums

Forums

A safe and non-judgemental space for LGBTQ+ people to talk to one another about their issues and life experience. Read more

Published: 24th September, 2022

Updated: 3rd April, 2025

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FindOut

FindOut

Welcome to FindOut, London's premier LGBTQ+ service and group finder, produced by LGBT HERO Read more

Published: 14th September, 2022

Updated: 30th November, 2023

Author: Anonymised User

I’m suicidal - help

I’m suicidal - help

Whatever's going on with you, help is out there. Read more

Published: 10th September, 2022

Updated: 25th September, 2025

Author: Anonymised User

Comments: 2

How can I tell someone I'm feeling suicidal?

How can I tell someone I'm feeling suicidal?

It's easier than you think to start the conversation: here's how. Read more

Published: 9th September, 2022

Updated: 4th March, 2026

Author: Anonymised User

How to stay safe if you're feeling suicidal

How to stay safe if you're feeling suicidal

If you're in a crisis there are some simple ways you can keep yourself safe. Read more

Published: 9th September, 2022

Updated: 25th September, 2025

Author: Anonymised User

12 ways you can be a better trans ally

12 ways you can be a better trans ally

Being a supportive and understanding ally to transgender people is crucial in promoting inclusivity and acceptance. Read more

Published: 31st August, 2022

Updated: 27th June, 2025

Author: Liam Murphy

Stress - what is it?

Stress - what is it?

We all experience stress from time to time, but what is it? And when does it become a problem? Read more

Published: 10th June, 2022

Updated: 25th September, 2025

Author: Anonymised User

Alcohol and drugs support

Alcohol and drugs support

Alcohol and drug support services for LGBT people Read more

Published: 29th April, 2022

Updated: 16th May, 2023

Author: Ian Howley

Making a safety plan

Making a safety plan

Preparing beforehand can help you cope when you're in crisis. Read more

Published: 7th April, 2022

Updated: 28th January, 2026

Author: Anonymised User

A Guide to Trans Healthcare

A Guide to Trans Healthcare

Struggling to navigate healthcare as a Trans person in the UK? Here is a comprehensive guide for you! Read more

Published: 28th March, 2022

Updated: 7th October, 2022

Author: River Solace

What is Sexual Wellbeing?

What is Sexual Wellbeing?

Sexual wellbeing is the link between our mental health and our sexual health. When our mental health is impacted, then our sex lives can be impacted too. Read more

Published: 13th December, 2021

Updated: 15th March, 2023

Author: Anonymised User

Sexual Wellbeing: body confidence

Sexual Wellbeing: body confidence

To talk about body confidence, we first have to talk about body image. Body confidence and body image, for many reasons, has always been a big issue within the LGBTQ+ community. Read more

Published: 13th December, 2021

Updated: 10th September, 2025

Author: Anonymised User

Sexual Wellbeing: sexual self-esteem

Sexual Wellbeing: sexual self-esteem

Self-esteem is the opinion we have of ourselves. It the driving force behind our positive, and negative thoughts about our own abilities, worthiness, and value. Read more

Published: 13th December, 2021

Updated: 15th March, 2023

Author: Anonymised User

Loneliness and being LGBTQ+

Loneliness and being LGBTQ+

What is loneliness? Why are LGBTQ+ people more likely to be lonely? What can you do about loneliness? Find answers to all these questions here. Read more

Published: 15th June, 2021

Updated: 30th July, 2025

Author: Elle Lapsen

LGBTQ+ peer-support and counselling

LGBTQ+ peer-support and counselling

Online support for LGBT people Read more

Published: 16th July, 2019

Updated: 7th October, 2025

Author: Ian Howley

Find Support

Find Support

You aren't alone Read more

Published: 27th February, 2019

Updated: 25th September, 2025

Author: Anonymised User

What is anxiety?

What is anxiety?

What is it? What causes it? Where can I get help? Read more

Published: 24th July, 2018

Updated: 7th October, 2025

Author:

Turbo-charge your mental health

Turbo-charge your mental health

There's more to caring for your mind than antidepressants and talk therapy. Read more

Published: 28th February, 2018

Updated: 25th September, 2025

Author: Anonymised User

Talking about mental health

Talking about mental health

Talking to someone else can be of great help. Here's how to do it. Read more

Published: 21st February, 2018

Updated: 7th October, 2025

Author: Anonymised User

Guide to gender identities

Guide to gender identities

A crash course on gender identity. Read more

Published: 3rd October, 2016

Updated: 30th November, 2023

Author: Ian Howley

How to come out

How to come out

Are you ready to come out? Read more

Published: 3rd October, 2016

Updated: 11th October, 2022

Author: Ian Howley

Comments: 4

Coming out

Coming out

People come out at all ages and in different ways. Read more

Published: 3rd October, 2016

Updated: 1st August, 2023

Author: Ian Howley

Comments: 1

How to support a friend who is feeling depressed

How to support a friend who is feeling depressed

When a friend is battling with depression, it can be hard to know what to do. Read more

Published: 2nd October, 2016

Updated: 7th October, 2025

Author: Ian Howley

Comments: 1

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