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HIV stigma

There's no shame in having HIV. Find here ways to combat stigma, how to disclose your status and educating others.

Living With HIV: think of the bigger picture

Living With HIV: think of the bigger picture

The video features a bunch of brilliant and brave gay men being open about their HIV status and declaring to the world that they may be living with HIV but it doesn’t stop them living their lives. Read more

Published: 4th August, 2021

Author: Anonymised User

Living With HIV: how stigma stops you getting a date

Living With HIV: how stigma stops you getting a date

I’d been chatting to a guy from a dating app on and off for a couple of days and the subject of work comes up – now I usually don’t say exactly what I do for a living straight away, because I’m not spending my Sunday afternoon giving personal advice to everyone on Tinder, Grindr, Hornet, Scruff or Twitter (if you don’t think Twitter is a dating app then you’re just not doing it properly) – anyway in this instance I do tell him and we open a can worms… Read more

Published: 4th August, 2021

Author: Anonymised User

Watch the 'Living With HIV' video

Watch the 'Living With HIV' video

Here is the the video for our new campaign tackling HIV stigma - Living With HIV Read more

Published: 4th August, 2021

Author: Anonymised User

Living With HIV: Talking undetectable

Living With HIV: Talking undetectable

Do you know what viral load is? Do you know what 'HIV-undetectable' means? Read more

Published: 4th August, 2021

Author: Anonymised User

How I made peace with my HIV status

How I made peace with my HIV status

I was asked to talk about my first time having sex after I was diagnosed and what that was like for me. I thought about it and what got me the most was that I couldn’t really remember. Read more

Published: 2nd August, 2021

Updated: 5th December, 2022

Author: Anonymised User

I don’t care if I never have sex with an HIV-negative guy again

I don’t care if I never have sex with an HIV-negative guy again

I don’t care if I never have sex with an HIV-negative guy ever again. This isn’t meant as some sort of inverted prejudice; I would never be so stupid as to turn someone down because of his HIV status. I just think it needs saying. Read more

Published: 2nd August, 2021

Author: Anonymised User

STIs in a post-condoms world

STIs in a post-condoms world

Let’s talk about PrEP. Or, let’s talk about how HIV treatment prevents the virus being passed on to sexual partners. When our virus is undetectable it is untransmittable (U=U). Read more

Published: 30th July, 2021

Author: Anonymised User

We can finally say it’s not all about condoms

We can finally say it’s not all about condoms

New data released by Public Health England showed that HIV diagnoses across the country had fallen by 18%. Confined to just gay and bisexual men, the drop was 21%; narrow it even further to just gay and bisexual men in London and it was 29%. Read more

Published: 30th July, 2021

Author: Anonymised User

Let's be honest about HIV risk

Let's be honest about HIV risk

What’s the best way of preventing HIV? Read more

Published: 29th July, 2021

Author: Anonymised User

HIV Stripped Bare 2018: Meet the models

HIV Stripped Bare 2018: Meet the models

Meet the models living with HIV... Read more

Published: 29th July, 2021

Author: Anonymised User

Safer breathing: how safe is 'safe'?

Safer breathing: how safe is 'safe'?

How safe is safe enough? Read more

Published: 28th July, 2021

Author: Anonymised User

Living with HIV in the time of COVID

Living with HIV in the time of COVID

We spoke with 8 gay and bi men living with HIV about their year, how they coped with lockdowns and navigated the global pandemic... Read more

Published: 28th July, 2021

Author: Anonymised User

What is serodifferent

What is serodifferent

Serodifferent is also known as serodiscordant. When a couple is serodifferent, this means one person is living with HIV and the other person is HIV-negative. Read more

Published: 8th June, 2021

Updated: 5th December, 2022

Author: Anonymised User

Disclosing your HIV status to a one night stand

Disclosing your HIV status to a one night stand

How do you disclose your status to a one night stand or hook-up? When do you bring it up and do you even need to? Read more

Published: 8th June, 2021

Updated: 15th July, 2021

Author: Anonymised User

Disclosing your HIV status to your employer and colleagues

Disclosing your HIV status to your employer and colleagues

Talking to friends and family may be easier than disclosing your status to a boss or fellow colleagues, particularly if you are not close to them. So how should you tell them and do you even need to? Read more

Published: 8th June, 2021

Updated: 15th July, 2021

Author: Anonymised User

Disclosing your HIV status to your family

Disclosing your HIV status to your family

Telling a family member about your HIV status can seem scary and daunting. It’s understandable that you never want your family to worry about your health, and it can be difficult discussing something so intimate with your mum, dad or a sibling. However, having your family as a support network can be invaluable when coming to terms with your diagnosis. Read more

Published: 8th June, 2021

Updated: 24th November, 2025

Author: Anonymised User

Telling your friends about your HIV status

Telling your friends about your HIV status

Being diagnosed with HIV can be a very isolating experience and can seem like a lot to deal with alone. Talking to friends and having their support can help you come to terms with your status, provide you with a support network and give you an opportunity to educate someone about HIV. Read more

Published: 8th June, 2021

Updated: 8th January, 2026

Author: Anonymised User

Disclosing your HIV status to your partner

Disclosing your HIV status to your partner

So how do you broach the subject of your HIV status with the one you love (or really like a lot)? Read more

Published: 8th June, 2021

Updated: 15th July, 2021

Author: Anonymised User

HIV-undetectable: sex without fear

HIV-undetectable: sex without fear

Fear is never far removed from any discussion of HIV. Fear was there in the first HIV prevention campaigns of the 1980s, as a giant tombstone engraved with ‘AIDS’ thudded to the ground. Read more

Published: 8th June, 2021

Updated: 2nd August, 2021

Author: Anonymised User

How has PrEP affected people living with HIV?

How has PrEP affected people living with HIV?

PrEP has made a huge impact on the gay community – something the survey proves. From reducing fear around HIV to people having more honest conversations about their status, PrEP is altering gay men’s sex and personal lives. But how has this impacted the people already living with HIV? Read more

Published: 8th June, 2021

Updated: 29th July, 2021

Author: Anonymised User

HIV stigma: what's the problem?

HIV stigma: what's the problem?

We all have our likes and dislikes when it comes to what we want in a sexual partner, but there can be a thin line between preference and prejudice. Read more

Published: 8th June, 2021

Updated: 29th July, 2021

Author: Anonymised User

What is HIV undetectable? (HIV+U | U=U)

What is HIV undetectable? (HIV+U | U=U)

HIV Undetectable is a term used to describe someone who is living with HIV but on successful and effective treatment. Someone who is HIV Undetectable cannot pass on the virus through sex. Read more

Published: 7th June, 2021

Updated: 8th January, 2026

Author: Anonymised User

Telling my family I’m living with HIV is the best thing I’ve done

Telling my family I’m living with HIV is the best thing I’ve done

By the time I arrived at home I was an emotional and exhausted wreck. We had not long finished our dinner when I saw my younger brother who, sitting on the opposite side of the table, gave me a look as to say ‘go on, tell them’. It was then I proceeded to break down in tears as I told my parents I was HIV-positive. Read more

Published: 5th August, 2016

Updated: 15th July, 2021

Author: Ian Howley

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