Better sex for GBT+ men

The more confident and informed you are in sexual situations, the easier it is for you to stay in control of the sex you're having and to make sure that the sex you have is as safe as you want it to be.

5 things you should know about your penis

Ah, the penis! We’re told not to think with it, but that doesn’t mean we can’t think about it. Read more

Goldicocks: the penis issue

Are we obsessed with the penis? My penis. Your penis. His penis. Any penis! The fact that this article opens with multiple penises means it’ll probably rank highly on penis-obsessed Google keyword searches, because penises attract attention. Read more

Penis anxiety is impacting gay men’s self-esteem

In our latest issue (FS #160) we found out what gay men like about their penis, what they like about others, and what issues impacts their self-esteem and causes anxiety.-self-esteem Read more

What makes a good top and a good bottom?

FS surveyed over 240 gay men to ask something very important. Something that affects every gay man. Something that’s so integral to our way of life it can impact relationships, change friendships and perhaps bring us closer to spiritual enlightenment. We asked: what makes a good bottom and what makes a good top? Read more

The group sex guide

The chances are that at some point in your life you will end up in a threesome, foursome, fivesome, orgy or full on gang bang. Read more

Staying hard: coping with erectile dysfunction

Not being able to get hard, or stay hard, when between the sheets can happen to any of us. Read more

Porn in lockdown - a chat with Leander and '10inchlondon'

The Coronavirus lockdown has negatively impacted many different industries, not least the sex industry. Read more

Sex and the pandemic: have our sex lives changed forever?

The last year has felt like a long decade. In a moment, our regular way of life was taken away from us. Once vibrant sex lives were snuffed out in an instant. Or were they? Read more

Looking after your sex toys

Sex toys can be a fun addition to a party but before you play here's what you need to know about keeping your toys in top condition. Read more

Erection problems

Not being able to get or maintain an erection (known as erectile dysfunction) is not uncommon. It can be hugely frustrating and have an impact on how you feel about yourself. Erectile dysfunction can have many causes, some physical and some psychological. Read more

Piles or haemorrhoids

What to do if you suffer from piles or haemorrhoids Read more

Cumming too quickly

How can you stop cumming too quickly? Read more

Messy sex and douching

Anal sex can get a little messy. It's perfectly natural and it has probably happened to all of us one time or another, but there are a few ways that you can potentially avoid a mess. Read more

Pain when having sex

What to do when you experience pain during sex Read more

Masturbating techniques

Whether you're alone, or with someone else, there's more to it than just grabbing and pulling... Read more

How to give a blow job

Blow jobs a core sexual activity for most but different people like different things. Read more

How to recieve a blow job

Some would argue that getting a blowjob requires no effort at all – you just lie back and enjoy yourself – and they're not far wrong. But if you would like a repeat service, it's best to think about ways to make the experience a good one for the bloke who's going down on you too, so here are some tips. Read more

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What is Sexual Wellbeing?

Sexual wellbeing is the link between our mental health and our sexual health. When our mental health is impacted, then our sex lives can be impacted too.
Sexual Wellbeing: body confidence

To talk about body confidence, we first have to talk about body image. Body confidence and body image, for many reasons, has always been a big issue within the LGBTQ+ community. Body Image is how we see our appearance and our bodies. It’s also the beliefs we have about the way we look: both positive and negative, and dictates what we think when we look in the mirror.
Sexual Wellbeing: sexual self-esteem

Self-esteem is the opinion we have of ourselves. It the driving force behind our positive, and negative thoughts about our own abilities, worthiness, and value. Our sexual self-esteem is very closely linked. As LGBTQ+ people, for lots of reason, we are more likely to deal with self-esteem issues which can lead to us not taking care of our overall sexual health.
Sexual Wellbeing: consent

Consent means that you have given permission for any intimate and sexual activity. When we are pressured or forced into sexual activity without consent, it’s considered either rape or sexual assault. Consent can be a big issue within the LGBTQ+ community, especially in LGBTQ+ spaces.

Being non-binary

What does it mean to be non-binary?
HIV advice for gay men

We've all heard the myths! If you're gay men you're bound to become HIV-positive. Right? Wrong!
"The Gay Community is Racist"

The question is: are we really that shocked to learn that Britain’s gay scene is so racist?
How risky is having sex without condoms?

Most gay and bisexual men who have HIV caught it from having penetrative sex without a condom.
Safe Sex and STIs - a guide for lesbians

Think lesbians aren't at risk of STIs? Think again.
Herpes

Herpes is a virus that is spread by skin to skin contact.
What are the signs of depression?

Here's what to look out for.
A modern guy's guide to cruising

Perhaps surprisingly, the proud tradition of cruising is still going strong. Wherever you are in the UK, you’re not going to be too far from a spot where you’ll easily find other men who want to hook up with men. There are plenty of apps and websites dedicated to helping you out if you want to have sex in a public place.
Shigella

Shigella (or bacillary dysentery) is a bacterial infection which you can get by coming into contact with poo.
Meet the gay men who are not out

Sometimes we in our little gay bubble forget that not all gay men come out. In our coming out survey, about 10% of those who responded told us they were not ‘out’.